“Some of Us Have Done Worse”: Woman Waits 8 Hours Outside Boyfriend, Suspecting Cheating, SA Reacts

“Some of Us Have Done Worse”: Woman Waits 8 Hours Outside Boyfriend, Suspecting Cheating, SA Reacts

  • A woman shared a dramatic story of her 8-hour wait outside her former boyfriend's estate after suspecting he was lying about his whereabouts
  • The captivating clip was shared on TikTok, where it went viral, with many users sharing their own similar experiences and begging for a part two
  • Social media users became deeply engaged with the story, many relating to the emotions involved, while others expressed shock at her patience
She sat in her car for eight hours, hiding behind a tree and and kept calling him
A woman did not leave her man's estate after she suspected he was inside, but not opening for her. Image: @simphiweshongwe
Source: TikTok

A woman left social media users in suspense after sharing a captivating story about a former boyfriend's deception.

The clip, shared by TikTok user @simphiweshongwe_, attracted a massive amount of views and comments from an invested public.

The woman, TikTok user @simphiweshongwe_, shared that the incident happened on a Monday morning in 2023. Her car was in for service, and she called her boyfriend, as they regularly communicated in the morning when she woke up. He did not answer, and when she called his friend, he confirmed that he was at home and was fine. She proceeded with her day, driving to Fourways to grab a few things. After that, she decided to head to his estate. At the gate, she chatted with the security guard, who was familiar with her, and he buzzed his apartment to let her in.

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The woman prepares to catch her cheating boyfriend

The security guard's change of demeanour when he came back caught her attention when he told her the man was not there. The woman realised he was lying when she called the man, and he kept texting her back, claiming he was at his home in Mpumalanga. She settled in her car, waiting outside his estate for eight hours, telling him he would eventually have to leave. Eventually, the boyfriend called his friend to pick him up.

Though the security guard initially told the friend he wasn't around, he insisted on being let in. Once inside, the friend picked up the boyfriend, and they exited the estate. The boyfriend sat in the front passenger seat and locked eyes with her as they exited. She shared that it got dramatic after that as she chased them in her car, but promised to share part two soon.

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Social media users begged the lady to share part two of her story after stopping at an interesting part
The woman said the man could not pick up calls, but kept textinging back, saying he was in Mpumalanga. Image: @simphiweshongwe
Source: TikTok

Mzansi is drawn to the lady's story

The story resonated with many social media users who flooded the comments section with their own similar stories of waiting for their partners. Many expressed that they understood the woman's emotions and patience, but that they would have left after 30 minutes.

Some were on the edge of their seats, with an overwhelming number of viewers begging the young lady for a part two. Others said they did worse and were ashamed to share their stories publicly.

User @Zanele K added:

"Some of us have done worse, so we won’t judge."

User @Why🫩 said:

"I went to his house after he wasn't answering his phone for the weekend, and his friend told me ( he was answering other people's calls except for mine). I got to his place, and he called and told me to go home and stop embarrassing myself. Oko wayexolisa from 2020 soze alibone izulu (he's been apologising since 2020, he will never see heaven)."

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User @Phodi asked:

"Guys, what makes you do these things when you realise someone is lying to you and doesn't want to open for you? Why not just leave? I mean, you already know what's going on.

User @Kekeletso Kgaugelo shared:

"He sat in the front seat because there was someone already in the backseat lying down 🤣."

User @Lungile Khumalo asked:

"Sis, not even two hours 😩? We listen but we don’t judge 😭."

User @Queen advised:

"Ladies, let’s normalise being busy with upgrading ourselves, 8 hours is too wild."

Watch the TikTok video below:

3 Briefly News articles about relationships

  • A local man shared a story about how he once drove five hours, from Durban to Phongolo, after his then-girlfriend said goodnight at 7 pm, leaving him suspicious.
  • A woman in a distant relationship decided to leave her city, Johannesburg, and relocate to her man's city, Bloemfontein.
  • A woman in a long-distance relationship boasted she was a warrior, keeping their bond strong even while miles away.

Source: Briefly News

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Bongiwe Mati (Human Interest Editor) Bongiwe Mati is a Human Interest reporter who joined Briefly News in August 2024. She holds a Bachelor of Arts Honours degree from the University of the Western Cape. Her journalism journey began in 2005 at the university newspaper. She later transitioned to marketing and sales at Leadership Magazine under Cape Media (2007-2009). In 2023, she joined BONA magazine as an Editorial Assistant, contributing to digital and print platforms across current news, entertainment, and human interest categories. Bongiwe can be reached at bongiwe.mati@briefly.co.za

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